Everyone sort of chats about the gfe experience and I think guys sort of roll their eyes at that expression somewhat. Others grasp what us girls are trying to explain is a nice friendly way.
Certain people out there are just vivacious and bubbly. You know the ones you cant help but gravitate to them. They can hold a conversation and just make you feel good when your near them. To me that is a gfe experience. That person who can draw you in and chat with you. Hold a conversation no matter what the topic they offer something.
There are girls out there that really view phone sex as a quick release they want to get you to nut and thats that. Tell them what you want and they will get you there. When you try to chat them up about things like what gets them excited in the bedroom its a blank what ever I am horny so you know. Anything. You know stuff.
You know your nodding on that one haha. I hear myself say something and it sounds beyond generic in the response but I will least say something to let you know that anything response is for a reason and your not getting some quick release girl.
Now I am not saying anything negative about those call n cum girls guys have a great time with them and if that is what your looking for them AWESOME! Seriously not here to knock anyone.
What I am saying is that some times you need more than a blanket response. You want a girl who will be there engaging in the fantasy. Where her giggle only excites you more cause you know there is something more to that giggle.
Like me I have a very bad tendency to hum when I am thinking of naughty scenarios. When you call for what ever fantasy it is you will often hear me pausing and humming while I work out the details in my mind. Some guys snicker on the end of the phone cause they can tell by the pitch of my humm where I am in the brainstorming of things. That I am in deep construction of the fantasy when its slow hum and then when I get those last bit together things speed up a bit. That one little detail is something you either love or hate about me. But its also what makes a GFE phone sex call exciting for you know my hum it helps build up the excitement in you.
My favorite of course to a GFE Experience is that connection we build over time that our little chit chat at the beginning of a call will lead me into where to go with a fantasy. Some little detail could spring a whole fantasy that you didnt even consider before. Has happened a few times and got to say it just adds that extra bit of something to the kinky fantasy.
So guess in my long winded way.. Just one of those days haha. If your looking for a girl who will add that depth to your erotic phone sex call the GFE mark would be one way to help find her. *Cough* or your reading her blog about such a topic *cough*
Kisses Kate
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